From Struggle to Confidence: A Proven Path to Raising Responsible, Independent Young Adults
Feeling Stuck in a Cycle of Frustration?
Parenting a teen or young adult can feel like walking a tightrope. You want to set firm boundaries, but you also want to nurture a loving, supportive relationship. It’s exhausting when your child pushes back, ignores responsibilities, or seems unmotivated.
Maybe they’re not helping around the house, their grades are slipping, or they’re still living at home without taking steps toward independence. You see their potential, but they’re not showing up the way you expect—and it’s frustrating, overwhelming, and, at times, even scary.
You’re left wondering: What am I doing wrong? How do I get through to them?
At this point, you’re exhausted. You just want to enjoy your life again, but how can you, when they’re still struggling?
➛ You’ve paid for extra support, but they won’t use it.
➛ You’ve bought incentives to motivate them, but the change never lasts.
➛ You’ve covered semester after semester, only to watch them struggle—or drop out.
➛ You’ve asked (and asked again) for help around the house, but you still come home to a mess.
➛ You’ve tried setting boundaries, but they don’t stick. You want to help them grow into independence, but nothing seems to move them forward.
➛ You’ve had conversations, read books, maybe even tried therapy—for them, for you, for both of you. And yet, here you are, still feeling stuck.
Imagine This… A Simple Shift That Changes Everything
Your teen breaks their phone. They haven’t been helping around the house, their grades are slipping, and responsibility isn’t their thing. Then, they come to you and say,
“I need a new phone.”
Instead of reacting, you pause. You take a deep breath and say:
“Wow, your phone is really broken. What are you going to do about it?”
No quick fixes. No pulling out your wallet. Just space for them to figure it out.
And suddenly, something shifts.
They start problem-solving—checking repair costs, dipping into savings, or realizing they need to earn money. They take ownership. They step up.
Now, imagine this beyond just a broken phone.
Over time, they stop looking to you for solutions—they come to you for advice. They trust you’ll help them think, not just tell them what to do.
You’re no longer fixing their problems. They are.
That’s how they grow. That’s how they become responsible, independent adults.
I WANT THIS →"Parenting isn’t about fixing every problem—it’s about guiding, trusting, and giving your child the space to grow into their own strength."
INTRODUCING
The Paradox of Parenting
 From Power Struggles to Stronger Connections
The Paradox of Parenting course will teach you how to prioritize yourself first—so you can become the confident, clear, and calm parent you want to be. From this intentional space, you'll foster a more balanced, respectful relationship with your teen or young adult.
With this course, you won’t just learn how to transition from parenting a child to guiding an emerging adult—you’ll gain lifelong tools that transform not only your parenting but all of your relationships. Finally, you’ll experience the deep, fulfilling connection with your teen or young adult that you’ve been longing for.
I WANT IN! →By the End of The Paradox of Parenting,
You’ll Know How To...
 Set and Hold Boundaries with ConfidenceÂ
Create boundaries that support your teen or young adult’s growth while standing firm with confidence and clarity—without guilt or second-guessing yourself.
 Stay Grounded No Matter Their EmotionsÂ
Instead of riding their emotional rollercoaster, you’ll stay steady and calm—enjoying your own peace while they work through their ups and downs. Even when they try to pull you in, you’ll know exactly how to step back and protect your own happiness.
 Show Up as the Parent You Want to BeÂ
You’ll take control of your own reactions, approach challenges with confidence, and let go of the need to fix everything. This shift will not only strengthen your relationship with your teen or young adult but also free up your energy to fully enjoy your own life again.
Hi, I am Shannon
Your Guide to Parenting with Confidence
With 18 years of experience as a life coach, I help parents shift from frustration to clarity, creating stronger, more balanced relationships with their teens and young adults. My approach is rooted in real-world strategies that help you set boundaries, let go of constant fixing, and guide your child toward independence—without power struggles.
For 13 years, I worked as a program manager in a transition study program, helping young adults who felt “stuck” realize they weren’t broken—they just needed the right skills. I’ve seen how a simple shift in perspective can transform both parents and their kids, bringing more peace and connection into the home.
As a mother of two (now 28 and 30), I understand the challenges firsthand. Parenting isn’t about controlling outcomes—it’s about leading with confidence and trust. That’s exactly what I help parents achieve.
I hold a Master’s in Communication and Leadership from Gonzaga University, specializing in Servant Leadership, which focuses on guiding others to reach their full potential. My mission is to help parents move from exhaustion and doubt to calm, clear leadership in their families.
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I’m here to help you break free from ineffective patterns and start parenting in a way that truly works—so you can feel confident, connected, and at peace in your relationship with your teen or young adult.
What’s Inside The Paradox of Parenting
This course is designed to help you shift from frustration to confidence, guiding your teen or young adult toward independence without power struggles. Inside, you’ll find 12 transformative modules, each with two focused lessons, plus a bonus module packed with additional tools and resources.
MODULE 1
You’re Already Whole! How to Embrace Growth in Your Parenting Journey
In this module, you will learn how to manage your emotions and take control of how you respond as a parent. By understanding your emotional patterns, you’ll gain the ability to choose which emotions to nurture—without judgment—so you can show up as a calmer, more present parent.
MODULE 2
Fast vs. Slow Thinking: How to Make Smarter Parenting Decisions
In this module, you will gain awareness of the 60,000–70,000 thoughts you have daily and learn how to shift from reactive to intentional thinking. By catching automatic thoughts in real-time, you’ll break free from old patterns and start shaping the parenting mindset you truly want.
MODULE 3
Interrupters: Finding a Way to Take Back Your Control
In this module, you will learn how to pause and interrupt old patterns that keep you stuck in frustration. By practicing conscious thinking shifts, you’ll develop the ability to respond rather than react, allowing you to create positive change in how you parent.
MODULE 4
Vibes Matter: How Your Energy Can Change the Parenting Game
In this module, you will discover how your internal energy influences your teen’s behavior. By learning to manage your own emotional state, you’ll communicate with more clarity and authority—without escalating conflicts.
MODULE 5
Parenting with Clarity: Seeing Your Teen/Young Adult’s Potential, Not Just the Problems
In this module, you will explore how shifting your focus from problems to potential can change the way you parent. You’ll learn how to visualize your teen as capable, independent, and successful—helping you guide them with more confidence and optimism.
MODULE 6
Embracing the Unknown: How to Thrive in the Uncertainty of Parenthood
In this module, you will learn strategies to handle the unpredictable nature of parenting older children. You’ll develop tools to stay grounded in uncertainty, manage unexpected challenges, and create more ease in your parenting journey.
MODULE 7
Communication Magic: Building Stronger Connections with Your Teen/Young Adult
In this module, you will master practical communication tools to reduce conflict and improve understanding. You’ll learn how to shift from controlling conversations to guiding them, creating a more cooperative and open relationship with your teen.
MODULE 8
The Power of Listening: Deepening Connection with Your Teen or Young Adult
In this module, you will develop the ability to truly listen and understand your teen. By practicing active listening techniques, you’ll build deeper trust, reduce miscommunication, and strengthen your connection in ways that help them feel seen and supported.
MODULE 9
Focus on What You Can Control: Finding Your Parenting Superpowers
In this module, you will identify the aspects of parenting that are within your control and learn how to let go of what isn’t. By focusing on what you can influence, you’ll reduce stress, set healthier boundaries, and give your teen the space to learn responsibility on their own.
MODULE 10
Intentionality in Parenting: Harnessing the Power of Your Brain for Meaningful Conversations
In this module, you will learn how to set clear intentions before engaging with your teen, so conversations become more productive and less emotional. By aligning your mindset with your desired outcomes, you’ll create more effective, solution-focused discussions.
MODULE 11
Challenging Beliefs: Shaping Your Parenting with Neuroscience
In this module, you will uncover how your existing beliefs about your teen shape the way you interact with them. By challenging and reframing limiting beliefs, you’ll open yourself up to seeing their growth potential, improving both your relationship and their independence.
MODULE 12
Celebrate the Wins: Finding Joy in Every Step of the Parenting Adventure
In this module, you will learn the power of small celebrations in shaping positive behavior. By recognizing progress, no matter how small, you’ll reinforce motivation and create a more uplifting dynamic in your home.
Exclusive Community Access
Connect with other parents, share experiences, and get support.
 Live Q&A
Sessions
Ask your biggest parenting questions and get expert insights in real time.
Printable Workbooks, Journals & Conversation StartersÂ
Get hands-on exercises, guided reflections, and ready-to-use scripts to help you apply what you’ve learned and navigate tough parenting conversations with confidence.
Engaging Your Teen/Young Adult in Budgeting
Learn how to involve them in financial decisions and help them build healthy money habits.
8 Steps to Being a Healthy Adult
Discover research-backed principles for fostering independence, resilience, and well-being.
Harnessing the Power of Appreciation
Learn how appreciation strengthens relationships and builds trust between you and your teen.
The Paradox of Parenting
One-Time Payment
Join now for $397.00
$347.00
- 12 Modules
- 3 Bonus Lessons
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Printable Workbooks & JournalsÂ
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Parenting Scripts & Conversation Starters
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Lifetime Access to the Course
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Exclusive Community Access
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Live Q&A Sessions
How this course changed lives.....
¨Shannon has been incredibly beneficial to our family. The tools provided absolutely work and the energy and personality that Shannon brings to the table are second to none. Thank you Shannon for genuinely caring and for directing us in a way that has absolutely changed our lives for the better.¨
Daniel Kraus
¨Shannon was instrumental in helping our young adult son return to college and move into a transitional living program. We could not have done it without her!!!¨
Amy Bielawski-Branch
¨I had been referred to Shannon by a close friend and I, likewise, would recommend her to anyone! I reached out to her during an incredibly difficult and pivotal time in my life and she was an incredible coach and mentor to me. She supported me in articulating my goals and helping me actualize them through thoughtful, positive and empowering work that we did together in our sessions. I will be forever grateful that I met Shannon when I did because with her guidance I was able to lay out a path and a plan that was realistic but also brilliantly urged me out of my comfort zone. So much beautiful growth came from our time together!¨
Elizabeth Ericson
¨I can't recommend Shannon's parenting class for young adults enough! She brings an incredible wealth of knowledge, insight and experience into each and every class module. Shannon has a unique ability to connect with young adults and their parents in a way that feels real and relatable. Her down-to-earth approach, coupled with practical examples, makes the complex world of parenting feel accessible and manageable. What I truly appreciate is how Shannon tailors her advice to the unique challenges young adults and their parents face today. She doesn’t just share textbook knowledge—she draws from her extensive experience, providing valuable strategies that are both effective and easy to implement. Whether it’s managing difficult conversations or understanding the emotional needs of young adults, Shannon always offers advice that feels relevant and achievable. It’s clear that Shannon is deeply invested in the lives of the families she works with, and that passion makes all the difference. Her warmth, understanding, and genuine passion for helping others shines through in every lesson. If you’re looking for a parenting course that is informative, practical and supportive, Shannon’s is the one to take!¨
 Rebecca Bonnell
Are You Ready to Take Back Control and Create a Relationship That Feels Fulfilling?
Right now, you might feel like joy and fun have disappeared from your life. Parenting feels exhausting, and the weight of old patterns and limiting beliefs keeps you stuck in frustration. You want to help your teen or young adult grow, but instead, you find yourself caught in power struggles, second-guessing your decisions, and feeling like nothing is working.
It’s time to take action.Â
With The Paradox of Parenting, you will:
- Break free from limiting beliefs and shift your mindset to create more peace in your home.
- Learn how to set boundaries, communicate effectively, and stop riding the emotional rollercoaster.
- Gain tools to guide your teen or young adult toward responsibility and independence—without constant conflict.
- See the possibilities in your life, for yourself and for your teen, so you can move forward with confidence.
You don’t have to stay stuck in frustration. A new way of parenting—and living—is possible.
Are you ready?
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Here are some most asked questions answered
I’ve tried other courses before, but they didn’t work for me. How is this different?
I’m not great with tech. Will I struggle with the course platform?
What if I don’t have time to complete the course?
Do I really need this course if I can find free resources online?
What if I don’t get results?
“It is not the thing, it is what we think about the thing that matters.”
You can't control your kids, but with these tools, you can begin to approach your life from a new perspective, giving you the most powerful tool of all—empowerment! You’ll be able to enjoy your life again, allowing your teen or young adult to either step up and take responsibility—or not. Either way, you no longer have to be trapped by their emotional ups and downs.
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